This is a printed iNDEX for you and your play partner to fill out together! It will help you understand each other’s DESiRES & MORE!

Learning is the most important part of a kinky lifestyle. So much comes down to learning more about you and your partner’s likes & dislikes, but you might come at it from a perspective of “I saw this, I wanna try it now”.  However, when you play from this point of view you miss so many of the important steps in the middle. This guide will make you think more deeply about your kinks and your dynamics, and what you want from both.

You should use this to explore what your interests are beyond your known kinks, keep an open mind, and be ready to explore yourself

This is meant to be an online kinky database of information as well as a workbook to guide and walk you through important topics within the lifestyle, covering everything from safety to personal connections.